REVIEW: RudeFinder.com
Rudefinder.com does not offer an option to put couple on the profile but I wanted to check it out to see if I can find any couples on this site. I put “girl looking for girls” but did not pay for a membership just in case I couldn’t specify that we were a couple somewhere once I got into the more detailed profile.
As soon as I signed up for a free membership, it offered me a discount to be a paying member. One month for around 23 dollars but if I did 12 months, it was only 9 dollars a month. Features included:
*Unlimited Emails
*View Enlarged Photos
*Unlimited WInks
*View all Profiles and Photos
*Customize “My Alerts”
It didn’t say anything about different levels of membership at this point. When I went to view my profile there was a red bar up top counting down an hour which was my only opportunity to get those discounted membership prices. After that, they would be increased 35%.
When I got into the editing my profile, I didn’t have the option to add the fact that I was a couple however, it does ask you what you are looking for and one option is threesome or group sex. So I figured that would be fine. You also have a block for the “about You” where I also put that we were a couple looking for a female to play with.
Within five minutes of playing on the site, I had an email from a girl that lived about 30 miles away. I thought she would be fake since it was so fast but her email sounded genuine so I tried to send her an email back. Of course, I had to upgrade to do that. So I have no idea if she was real or not.
This site is a lot like AdultFriendFinder in that you can see pics but can’t respond to emails or view their profiles without paying.
I didn’t end up paying for a membership with this one because I get the feeling the girls on here are cam girls looking for business. All I would do with that is try and recruit them to our site but probably wound’t get a date out of it. This site has some bad reviews online. Do any of you have a membership here that could give us some insight? I would greatly appreciate it. I hope I am wrong about this site but I don’t get a great feeling from it.
REVIEW: AdultFriendFinder.com
I had mentioned in the blog that I ask swingers in the live chat where they meet people when they want a threesome of whatever. In many cases, they tell me AdultFriendFinder. So I decided I needed to check it out. I signed up for free just to get a look around and decide if I wanted to be a paying member. My advice would be to pay for a plan because if you don’t, you don’t get access to much at all. You can see pictures but can’t view the profiles of those people. Here is a breakdown of what comes with the plans:
Standard:
Chat
Hotlist Others
Participate in blogs and groups
View one hot video per day
View one broadcast per day
Gold: You get all of that plus…
Unlimited views of hot videos
Unlimited views of broadcasts
Send email
Send flirt
See hot photos
Read complete profile
Send friend request
Receive priority customer services
If you are really going to use this site to try and find someone to date, you need to the Gold subscription. But like I said, you can first sign up for free to look around and I typically do that first. When I signed up it asked me what I was looking for (Woman, Man, Straight Couple, Lesbian Couple, Gay Couple, Group or TS/TV/TG), what I wanted (1-on1 Sex, Discreet Relationship, Group Sex, Erotic Chat/Email/Phone or Voyeur) and last, who I was (Same options as given above,) There is a profile to fill out that asks…well everything. You describe your features, your body type, bra size, penis size…etc. This step may take some time so I just did a little and skipped the rest for now to look around the site.
As soon as I registered, I received an email saying I had 15 matches. It felt like EHarmony all over again! I am not sure how it picks matches though because I had not completed my profile yet. I think it just showed me people in my area.
When you click on the “What’s Hot” tab, you can choose to view videos, albums, members or pictures. If you view videos, you can actually narrow down what you are looking for as far as a group, single male, single female, etc. You can also view a certain age range.
In the LiveAction area, you choose between chats (Interest group Chat Room, Instant Messenger, Flash Chat or Live Model Chat) and video. (Live Member Videos or Live Model Videos.) This is probably my favorite area of the site.
You also have the ability (If you are a paying member) to add friends, lists and send flirts to other people.
My dislikes:
*You can’t see other people’s profiles unless you are a paying member.
*I was swarmed with matches in the beginning and that slowly died down. But that is typical with most dating sites.
My likes:
*The ability to narrow videos according to what you like.
*The ability to chat with others right there on the site versus having to wait to email people individually.
*The layout of the site. It is user friendly and gives you access to everything the site offers.
*There are a lot of couples on here. We are probably just looking for a female right now but I like seeing how many other couples use this site. ‘
*Since I didn’t mention I was interested in a gay man, I don’t see the pictures of them on my page. (Don’t get me wrong, I have NOTHING against homosexuals, I actually quite like them, just not in a sexual manner.) It was nice not to have to search through people that don’t really appeal to me sexually though.
The good far outweighs the bad and if you are going to use the site often,paying for it is worth it and you won’t have to deal with my complaints anyways. I have many more sites to look at but so far, this one has started my search off on the right foot!
If you are interested in joining this site, click here.
Introducing…Dating Site Reviews!
I get the pleasure of chatting with many of our readers several times a week. This has really opened my eyes as to just how many swingers are following our story and site. It is unreal! It makes me so happy though because each one of them has been able to tell me about their experiences, offer advice and tell me to relax. 
I have mentioned it before but I truly appreciate everything you all have taught me.
I like to ask questions to the swinger couples because I am curious and love learning new things. One question I like to ask is “Where do you meet people to hook up with.” This answer varies of course but it seems like many couples enjoy looking online versus meeting people at the clubs. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing more fun than trying to pick someone up while your husband or wife helps but I think these couples enjoy talking to the person or couple online first, and setting a date to meet before the action starts.
I have featured a couple of dating sites for couples that I enjoy but based on the information given to me by all of you lovely people, I now realize there are tons more sites that I should look at.
That brings me to my point. I added a section to the review tab specifically for these dating sites. I want to look at and analyze each one and notate my likes and dislikes so that any of you can determine which site you would like to use (If you choose this method) without having to sign up and spend tons of money. I once spent too much money and time signing up for regular dating sites and it would have been nice if I had found someone who had already done that work. I did meet the man of my dreams though, so it was worth it. I am excited about this addition because we are now searching for the women (yes, plural) and/or couples of our dreams and let me tell you, it is much fun.
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