Top Relationship Issues: Porn
This may be one of the biggest issues we will talk about in this series. I used to be the girl that would get terribly upset about my man watching porn. That was until I realized how much it could enhance our relationship.
Let’s start with WHY it is an issue. I think the biggest issue with watching porn is jealousy. A woman may feel that her man watched porn because she isn’t good enough for him. Some may even think this is cheating. A contributing factor to that feeling is the bodies of the women in these movies. Women may feel like it gives their men an unrealistic picture of sexuality and they may start requesting to do things that are done in the movies. (IE: Cum on the girl’s face). For some people, porn can become an addiction. Being addicted to porn can ruin one’s chances at a healthy relationship so that should not be taken lightly. The issues we are talking about here are not going to help with an addiction.
The Aftermath
I wanted to post an update about how we are doing after bringing another girl into our bed.
It was the best thing we could have done for our relationship. We are so much more open than we were, and we were already very open.
I have drastically changed my mindset since this experience. Before, I was very closed minded and against many things. Now, I am willing to try whatever to make my fiance’s fantasies come true..now that he is comfortable telling them to me. I am also realizing I have more fantasies than I thought and those are coming out too. We are also constantly coming up with fantasies together and that is just another way we bond. He tells me how much he loves my openness and sexuality now so I get more comfortable showing that side of me on a regular basis.
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How To Train Yourself To Have Multiple Orgasms
I wanted to post this article as a follow up to the one titled “How to Give Women Multiple Orgasms During Sex.” It is my personal goal to learn how to achieve multiple orgasms every time we have sex. You can find this article on Dan and Jennifer’s Site.
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How to Give Any Girl Multiple Orgasms During Sex
I found this on Askdanandjennifer.com and immediately thought, “Yes please!” I have only had one, I repeat…ONE..night with multiple orgasms and it was amazing. I have tried multiple times but just can’t seem to make it happen again. Here are their tips:
What To Do After Her First Orgasm-
Once she has experienced her first orgasm, you want to ensure she remains aroused. Cuddle, coo, snuggle and tell your lover how much you appreciate her, all while slowly and gently stimulating the clitoral head and hood.
If she is too sensitive, pull back to the labia, the mons or even the inner thigh. Basically, whatever pressure, rhythm and position you were in prior to her orgasm, you want to continue along those lines but more gently and with less force.
Focus on the romance for a bit instead of the orgasm, and allow her a bit of a breather. Just don’t stop touching for more than a few seconds at a time, or the cool-off period will begin.
Watch Her Breathing-
Once your girl’s breathing starts slowing back to normal (but before it gets all the way there), start with a bit more pressure along the mons pubis. If need be, shift into another position that offers strong symphysis and/or G-Spot stimulation.
If you can, put your hand over the mons pubis and feel around for the clitoral shaft, making sure she is getting the proper angle for lots of rubbing and friction.
Move your body further up hers if you are in a sex position facing her, so that you can help her rise toward climax again. If she pushes you away or says she’s too sensitive, take things back a few notches but don’t stop entirely.
Focus On The Other Parts-
Focus on other parts of her body that arouse her until she starts to move of her own accord, rubbing against you in search of more stimulation. When her hips thrust and her breathing quickens, you can start playing with her mons pubis and pressing up against her pubic bone.
Her second orgasm should occur in less time than it took the first, only because her body didn’t regress all the way back to the non-aroused state before beginning her next ascent to climax.
These tips are really good in my opinion. I think my problem is that I try too soon after the first one and haven’t given my body enough time to recoup. I can’t wait to try these tips!
REVIEW: Go Deep – Oral Sex Mints
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I am pretty good at giving a BJ without gagging but am trying to train myself to be better at deep throating. I want to be one of those women who can take a cock so deep in her mouth that my lips are touching his base and I can still look up at him without tears in my eyes. I think that is so hot. Unfortunately, I am not to that point yet so I bought these mints to try and help me.
I have heard of some people using Altoids for the same reason but these mints contain benzocaine and Altoids are just ridiculously minty.
The package is small but contains 20 mints. It recommends using 1-2 but I found that 3 worked better for me. They aren’t quite as strong as I would have thought but with 3, they definitely help. I put them in and then immediately start sucking on my man. I can tell when my throat starts going numb so I can take him in deeper. I still couldn’t take him as deep as I can in my dreams but the mints did help. Not only was the numbing cool but they are obviously minty so it felt nice and cool to him too. I also noticed that when I got to the point where I would normally gag a little, I didn’t and was able to even take it further.
These are cheap on Amazon so you can’t really go wrong. Amazon has a ton of other throat sprays and mints so if you try something else, let us know what you think so we can try them too!
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