REVIEW: RudeFinder.com
Rudefinder.com does not offer an option to put couple on the profile but I wanted to check it out to see if I can find any couples on this site. I put “girl looking for girls” but did not pay for a membership just in case I couldn’t specify that we were a couple somewhere once I got into the more detailed profile.
As soon as I signed up for a free membership, it offered me a discount to be a paying member. One month for around 23 dollars but if I did 12 months, it was only 9 dollars a month. Features included:
*Unlimited Emails
*View Enlarged Photos
*Unlimited WInks
*View all Profiles and Photos
*Customize “My Alerts”
It didn’t say anything about different levels of membership at this point. When I went to view my profile there was a red bar up top counting down an hour which was my only opportunity to get those discounted membership prices. After that, they would be increased 35%.
When I got into the editing my profile, I didn’t have the option to add the fact that I was a couple however, it does ask you what you are looking for and one option is threesome or group sex. So I figured that would be fine. You also have a block for the “about You” where I also put that we were a couple looking for a female to play with.
Within five minutes of playing on the site, I had an email from a girl that lived about 30 miles away. I thought she would be fake since it was so fast but her email sounded genuine so I tried to send her an email back. Of course, I had to upgrade to do that. So I have no idea if she was real or not.
This site is a lot like AdultFriendFinder in that you can see pics but can’t respond to emails or view their profiles without paying.
I didn’t end up paying for a membership with this one because I get the feeling the girls on here are cam girls looking for business. All I would do with that is try and recruit them to our site but probably wound’t get a date out of it. This site has some bad reviews online. Do any of you have a membership here that could give us some insight? I would greatly appreciate it. I hope I am wrong about this site but I don’t get a great feeling from it.
Blue Clitoris
Can girls get “Blue Balls?” When I read that title, I immediately thought yes! Because it happens to me often. We will be watching a movie and he will touch me down there and while I am ready to head to the bedroom, fuck the movie, he wants me to wait so I can get extra worked up. I kept trying to tell him I was getting “Blue Lips” and now I have an article to support me. 
We all know that men can have what’s called the “blue balls” phenomenon. This happens when a man cannot release by climaxing for various reasons. He might have been holding out for too long because he wants to last longer for the sake of his partner’s pleasure, or his sexual mood may have been destroyed.
A woman can have what we call “blue clitoris” for the same reasons.
The clitoris is structurally similar to the penis. Any book on anatomy would tell you that the penis and the clitoris are made out of the same stem cells and both organs react in a similar manner to direct sexual stimulation.
When a woman feels the urge to have sex, her clitoris becomes infused with blood and tightens into a pink taut bud. The tension builds until orgasm ensues, after which the blood drains from the clitoris and it goes back to being the soft fold of skin on top of the woman’s inner lips.
Because you know the pain of having blue balls, you should know that it’s equally painful for women to experience “blue clitoris.”
Mood Break
If you’re petting in a public place and you’ve been heavily petting, someone or something might happen to destroy the mood completely. The same goes when you’re having sex and the doorbell rings. Don’t be surprised when you see your girlfriend walking in an odd manner when these things happen. Besides the discomfort below her belly (along the navel area); her clitoris might be feeling sore as it uncomfortably rubs against her panties in its hardened state.
Unfulfilled Fantasy
During sex, your girlfriend might be harbouring a fantasy that keeps her aroused. It could be the same fantasy that she uses as masturbation fuel when she’s alone. When she looks up and realizes that you’re nothing like the “you” inside her fantasy, she might lose her mood completely even if her clitoris is still hard.
What you can do is discuss her fantasy during your lovemaking so that you can act like the way you usually do in her daydreams. Communication is the key to good sex, and if you manage to get her talking to you in fantasy mode, you know you’re on the right track.
You Had Your Climax Too Soon
Most guys can pick up where they left off when it comes to sex, that’s why the tension remains high even when you change positions. The sensation may vary, like when you shift from blow job to penetration, but the sexual tension in you will remain high.
Unfortunately, women are not capable of picking up where they left off. If you get her close to orgasm by penetration then you suddenly climax, she won’t be able to climax soon after, even if she manages to fondle her clitoris like mad after you’ve climaxed. When you climax before a woman, one of the consequences is that you may have to deal with is her “blue clitoris.”
Let this be a lesson to all of you guys, we feel the pain too!
Source: http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/blue-clitoris/
5 Signs He’ll Be Good In Bed
This is for the single ladies. I typically focus on couples but I like this article because I picked up on these things when I was dating my fiance and BOY is he good in bed! He to this day, still opens the door for me and tells me how beautiful I am. I think that is a huge reason why we have such a great sex life, I am comfortable in my own skin around him and that makes me willing to try new things without feeling embarrassed. So ladies, if you can find a man who does the things below, I hope you work out because these are awesome traits in a guy!
1. He is a Gentleman
In love and sex, it’s the small things that matter. Does he open doors for you, pull out your chair, call to check in about your day, remember to ask about your big work project? All are signs that he’s thinking about you. If he’s a thoughtful gentleman out of the bedroom, you can bet that treatment will continue once the lights are out.
2. He Know How To Touch You
Guys who are into sex purely for sex’s sake often save touching for one purpose, to score. A great lover is one who values sensuality both in and out of the bedroom. So if you’re seeing a guy who touches your hand across the table at dinner, feels the small of your back as you walk through a hallway or holds your hand as you stroll through the park… that guy will know how to touch all of you.
3. It’s Not Always About Him
For some men, it’s always about them. What happened in their day, where they want to eat and what movie they want to see. Can you see where this is heading? But a guy who asks you about your day first, goes to your favorite restaurant even if he’s not a huge fan of that type of food… or cuddles on the couch for a chick-flick? Now that guy will make your happiness a priority both in and out of bed!
4. He’s Not In A Rush
Guys who are more interested in your body than in you, well, they want to get in the sack in a rush. Join him there too quick and you’ll be a flash in his pan. A man who is truly interested in being your lover knows that you are worth a little wait. He actually wants to savor the build up because he plans on sticking around. So, if he says, “Let’s wait” or “I’m not in a rush,” know that he’s willing to invest in his lovemaking.
5. He Makes You Feel Beautiful
Mind blowing sex is all about feeling free to be your uninhibited self because you know that your partner appreciates you. The kind of man who will make you feel that way is free with his compliments– building you up with each little thing he notices about you that he likes. Even the way he looks at you will make you feel smart, sexy and attractive. That kind of chemistry smolders in bed and bursts into flame.
Read the full article here.
REVIEW: AdultFriendFinder.com
I had mentioned in the blog that I ask swingers in the live chat where they meet people when they want a threesome of whatever. In many cases, they tell me AdultFriendFinder. So I decided I needed to check it out. I signed up for free just to get a look around and decide if I wanted to be a paying member. My advice would be to pay for a plan because if you don’t, you don’t get access to much at all. You can see pictures but can’t view the profiles of those people. Here is a breakdown of what comes with the plans:
Standard:
Chat
Hotlist Others
Participate in blogs and groups
View one hot video per day
View one broadcast per day
Gold: You get all of that plus…
Unlimited views of hot videos
Unlimited views of broadcasts
Send email
Send flirt
See hot photos
Read complete profile
Send friend request
Receive priority customer services
If you are really going to use this site to try and find someone to date, you need to the Gold subscription. But like I said, you can first sign up for free to look around and I typically do that first. When I signed up it asked me what I was looking for (Woman, Man, Straight Couple, Lesbian Couple, Gay Couple, Group or TS/TV/TG), what I wanted (1-on1 Sex, Discreet Relationship, Group Sex, Erotic Chat/Email/Phone or Voyeur) and last, who I was (Same options as given above,) There is a profile to fill out that asks…well everything. You describe your features, your body type, bra size, penis size…etc. This step may take some time so I just did a little and skipped the rest for now to look around the site.
As soon as I registered, I received an email saying I had 15 matches. It felt like EHarmony all over again! I am not sure how it picks matches though because I had not completed my profile yet. I think it just showed me people in my area.
When you click on the “What’s Hot” tab, you can choose to view videos, albums, members or pictures. If you view videos, you can actually narrow down what you are looking for as far as a group, single male, single female, etc. You can also view a certain age range.
In the LiveAction area, you choose between chats (Interest group Chat Room, Instant Messenger, Flash Chat or Live Model Chat) and video. (Live Member Videos or Live Model Videos.) This is probably my favorite area of the site.
You also have the ability (If you are a paying member) to add friends, lists and send flirts to other people.
My dislikes:
*You can’t see other people’s profiles unless you are a paying member.
*I was swarmed with matches in the beginning and that slowly died down. But that is typical with most dating sites.
My likes:
*The ability to narrow videos according to what you like.
*The ability to chat with others right there on the site versus having to wait to email people individually.
*The layout of the site. It is user friendly and gives you access to everything the site offers.
*There are a lot of couples on here. We are probably just looking for a female right now but I like seeing how many other couples use this site. ‘
*Since I didn’t mention I was interested in a gay man, I don’t see the pictures of them on my page. (Don’t get me wrong, I have NOTHING against homosexuals, I actually quite like them, just not in a sexual manner.) It was nice not to have to search through people that don’t really appeal to me sexually though.
The good far outweighs the bad and if you are going to use the site often,paying for it is worth it and you won’t have to deal with my complaints anyways. I have many more sites to look at but so far, this one has started my search off on the right foot!
If you are interested in joining this site, click here.
What on Earth Is A Pheromone Party?
I have suggested using pheromones with your lover to add a little extra sensuality to your night. After finding this article on Twitter, I learned that people are now hosting pheromone parties..a little strange but definitely interesting!
“Pheromones” (pronounced: fare-oh-moans; getting sexy already) are bio-chemical scents released by fauna and flora to elicit an involuntary response in cohorts, predators and prey. Traditionally, when we use the word, we mean sex pheromones, i.e. the olfactory version of singing Nine Inch Nail’s “Closer” while looking you directly in the eye. Evidently, our brains pump happy, loving chemicals when the stink of a good genetic match strikes their fancy.
Ms. Pray decided to put the maths and sciences to the test by asking singles-ready-to-dingle to put plain, white T-shirts on for three days and then place those undershirts in a plastic bag with their numerical designation. Attendees would then waft the BO into their noses and mark down which they found the most interesting (re: loin-stirring). Various suggestions, such as keeping strong spices and booze to a minimum and eschewing eau du whatever, were mentioned early in the process. If you’ve ever been caught sniffing hair, this could be the party for you.
Party-goers seemed to have a good time and it will only be known down the road if the smell test was successful for these singletons. There is, however, precedent; Ms. Pray held a similar event in New York 18 months ago, which resulted in 12 relationships and many hookups.
Smelling a stranger’s BO is not really my idea of a good time but I get the point behind these parties. This type of party originated in Los Angeles but don’t be surprised if one pops up near you. =)
Source: http://www.yourtango.com/2012150081/weird-news-angelinos-now-sniffing-dates
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