Our First Threesome!

Written by Her on April 18, 2012 in Blog

When we were getting ready to go out Sunday night, I had never imagined I would end up in the situation I did but for some reason, I spent a little extra time shaving, putting on lotion and all that other stuff women to do look their best. It was lucky I did.

We were going to San Antonio to see a friend of my fiance’s because she was interested in working for our cam site so we took her the paperwork and she said she would treat us to a nice night at the strip club she works at. This friend also happened to be one of my fiance’s Ex girlfriends. I was having a little trouble with the thought of him watching her dance naked but more importantly, would this little excursion to see her bring back any old memories? We had both specifically said that no matter what, she would not be coming home with us because of the feelings I was having. It hadn’t even been considered so I am not sure why we talked about it, but we did. We get to Sugar’s and I got to meet her and she is actually really cool. I didn’t get any weird vibes from her or from my fiance so I decided to quit worrying about it. You can read about our experience at the club in this review.

The friend, her dancer friends and the guys all talked forever that night. It was a lot of fun. She did keep bringing up stuff about my fiance and gave me probably too much information about their relationship but I honestly think she was just trying to make conversation with me and I had enough to drink that I was easily able to blow it off. We both wanted this relationship between us to work since I would now be her employer.

The blog came up in conversation as well as my desire for a threesome. After a few hours she came over to give me another dance and told me she wanted to come home with us. She knew I was nervous and had never had one before so she told me she would be patient and be as careful around my man as I wanted. She actually didn’t seem like she had any interest in him being with us but I obviously was not just doing this for me so I knew I would make sure he was as involved as I was. I can’t believe it, but I didn’t even hesitate..I just told her I needed to ask my fiance and she said he had already approved. It is funny how we went into the night with a plan and neither one of us stuck to it.

We met her out front and after some drama getting her car keys from her manager at the club, we were finally able to head back to the hotel. We all laid in bed and talked uncomfortably for a minute and then my fiance started taking my clothes off. Her and I started kissing and touching and I kissed her down her chest and sucked on her nipples. Then I continued to kiss her down her stomach until I got to the one area I have dreamt about tasting so much lately. It was amazing. I wasn’t at all nervous but my fiance did put his head right next to mine and helped me lick her soft pussy.

We focused our attention on him next. I asked her to help me give him a blow job and she asked me several times if that was OK with me. I told her I had wanted to do that to him for a while and that I was comfortable. I started the sucking and then she joined in by softly grabbing his balls. We alternated sucking and I moved up to kiss him as she sucked his cock. I finally got to see the look on his face while he had two girls going down on him and it was HOT. I could tell he was pleased and that we would have many nights of amazing sex because of this one act. We spent some more time going down on her and them on me and then he wanted me to climb on his cock. She wasn’t comfortable sitting on his face and I also decided I wasn’t ready for that position even though I thought I woud be. We hadn’t decided on a code word since this was totally unexpected but she wouldn’t sit there so he just asked her to sit on his chest so I could still get the effect I was looking for. I fucked him until he came and I kissed her and rubbed her while he grabbed both of us. Neither one of the girls came but it was still amazing. I think next time will be even more amazing if we can make that happen. Unfortunately, that is what happens when I drink too much.

One thing I had discussed with her was I didn’t want them to kiss. My fiance and I had already agreed in our first threesome that he wouldn’t sleep with the girl because I am still uncomfortable with that and need to ease into it. I didn’t want them to kiss because of the relationship between the two and them and he agreed. I will be comfortable with him kissing the next girl we hook up with though.

Remember my Sexy Love Letter? I got to live out most of my fantasies that night and I am so glad we were able to, even if we weren’t expecting to.

I take a lot of things away from this experience. It was nice to be able to fully enjoy 2 people and my insecurities about my body didn’t even cross my mind. I also wasn’t judgmental about her in any way and I hate to say, I thought I would be the first time I messed around with a girl. All I did was enjoy her and nothing else mattered.

I feel better that we have gotten it over with for lack of a better phrase just because now I know more about what to expect. I also learned that I need to work on my threesome knowledge because I would find moments where he was touching her and I wasn’t sure what to do. Kind of like the third wheel I guess and that is not a feeling I should have had. It was completely my fault though. These moments never lasted long because he would always pull me back in and put me where he wanted me.

I do kind of wish my first time wouldn’t have been with his ex because I spent a whole next day wondering if he felt the same about me. Was I as good as her, was I as pretty as her? Did he miss what they had? All of this is ridiculous to think about but I have no doubt that had this experience been with a girl neither of us knew prior to, I wouldn’t have had these things running through my mind.

She was very sweet about checking on me and seeing if I was ok with what was happening. My man and I were checking in with looks because I knew he was down for whatever so anytime he looked me in the eye, I smiled at him to let him know I was also enjoying myself.

We have learned that we definitely need a code word. Especially because I know not every girl will be as aware of my feelings as this one was. The next experience will also be planned so that we are mentally prepared for what we want to do. Everything with this one came so fast that I feel there were things he didn’t get to tell me he wanted to do.

It was funny because a random thought had crossed my mind earlier in the day. I tell you what, that subconscious thing really freaks me out sometimes. I had asked him how you should politely tell the girl you don’t want her to stay the night. He wasn’t sure but then mentioned that I had written something about telling them your expectations going in. Well, we didn’t have a chance to discuss those things so she definitely stayed the night. It wasn’t as awkward as I thought it would be though. We had to get up early to drive all the way back home anyway since we both had to work that day so it wasn’t like we were eating breakfast together.

Every experience we have helps us learn more about each other and also makes our relationship that much stronger. He was worried that I wouldn’t want to have another one since this one was a little weird for both of us but I am looking forward to another one and getting to practice my pussy pleasing skills. =)