2 Steps to Prepare Her For An Orgasm
Another great article posted by Dan and Jennifer!
Most women know that we have to be warmed up before we can orgasm. This article is more geared towards men and women because a female O is a two person job during sex.
1. Help Her Relax
Free the mind and bring your girl to a place where she can enjoy the moment, loosen up, and let go of her worries. We didn’t go through all that trouble just so she can lie passively, stare blankly at the ceiling, and do nothing but wait for the climax.
Of course not! She has a part in this dance. We went through the trouble of relaxing the mind & body so she can actively FOCUS on the sexual sensations. It’s the girl’s job is to take all stimulation, heighten awareness, and use that to power the climaxes.
An orgasm is not a passive thing; she has to feel the intensifying sensations of an unfolding process. She has to close her eyes, stop worrying about bills or anything fishy, block everything else.
2. Switch to Sexual Rapture
She has to recognize your hand and attend its gig on her vulva. She has to feel your fingers inside her, threatening to enflame her G -spot. She has to follow your tongue as it scintillates her clitoris. She has to feel every thrust and be enveloped with your blissful moves.
But as she’s doing these, she shouldn’t drive for an orgasm, but simply ride the journey to it. If she gets worried with cumming, she’ll merely undo everything in Step 1. Here, she’s not pressuring herself, she’s just enjoying the process, being in the moment. She’s not thinking about the big O, but reveling in the ecstasy you bring each other. She’s just playing around.
And then, just when she’s not expecting it, at a point when she’s just messing around, at a moment when she’s lost all track of time… she begins that familiar writhing. It’s those unmistakable contractions. They’re starting to come in. She moans. Her body thrashes and her head swings side-to-side. Ding. ding. ding!
That’s the two-step process of sidestepping the paradox. First, clear her head. Second, fill it with erotic bliss.
REVIEW: Playboy TV – School of Sex – S1 E8
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In this episode, Tera Patrick teaches guys how to prolong ejaculation to make sex more enjoyable for the male and female.
Britney and Christian lay on the bed relaxed and explore each other’s bodies. They then undress each other. The guy shouldn’t concentrate on a mind blowing performance but more so making both of them comfortable. If you feel like you are going to ejaculate, have the woman go to other areas of you body like your feet. He fucks her first missionary style, then she gets on top of him and then he fucks her doggy style. Slow this down as much as you need so you can decide when to climax.
Review: Try to enjoy each other and keep things slow until you are ready to climax. Don’t get in your head too much about the performance but just enjoy it. You shouldn’t hurry or rush to get what you want.
Next, she gives advice about a woman who wanted to start a relationship with another woman.
Jennifer and Peeta start slowly rubbing each other over clothes and slowly undress each other, leaving the underwear on. This will keep the new comer feel more comfortable. Peeta then kisses Jennifer all over as she undresses her. Tera doe not recommend that the girls make love to each other on the first encounter. This will come later. Tera tells Peeta not to spend too much time on any one area. She does tell her be sure to pay attention to Jennifer’s neck and nipples. Next Jennifer is instructed to take Peeta’s clothes off and concentrate on her breasts. Then she kisses her entire body until she hits the vaginal area. A woman having sex with another woman for the first time will be intimidated so it is important that her partner is patient and makes sure she is comfortable. They begin to 69 and Jennifer fingers Peeta. They then lie down and embrace each other. They “scissor” for lack on a better term until they both climax.
Review: Take things slow with a newbie. Undress her except her underwear then slowly rub on her body making sure not to overwhelm her. Let her then do the same to you. You don’t want to rush into vaginal play since she may be timid but just make sure she is comfortable and let things flow as she gets more open.
This show is about 30 minutes long and it was our first time watching it. It lacked a little excitement for me. The topics were good but I feel like they could have elaborated on the actual advice. The host isn’t a great actress so some of the things she said made me chuckle. Over all though, I like this show and will watch it again. I think the topics are good and would be helpful to many people.
You can watch for yourself on Playboy TV.
Facts About the G-Spot
I find this article on one of my favorite sites, chacha.com. I find the G-Spot interesting, as so many people, so I wanted to share it with you.
Where is it?
The G-spot has long been considered something of a myth, with some people believing that it doesn’t exist or that some women don’t have one. We still don’t have much concrete information on this hidden pleasure point or the process and effects of its stimulation for individual people, but it is said to be positioned on the front wall of the vagina, between 1 and 3 inches inside. Some studies project that as many as 90 percent of women cannot find their G-spot.
How big is this thing?
About the size of a quarter when the woman is aroused and about the size of a pea when she is not.
Do I have one?
Studies vary greatly but anywhere between 30 and 75 percent of women claim or have been shown to have one.
How do I find it?
To find out if you have a G-spot or one that can be stimulated through sexual intercourse or play, have a partner insert two fingers into the vagina, hand palm-up, and gently curl the fingers up toward your belly button, feeling along the vaginal wall with a bit of pressure for a spongy spot that feels different than the surrounding tissue. Guide your partner by letting him/her know where you feel sensitivity.
Female Ejaculation:
Some believe that activating the G-spot causes something similar to “female ejaculation,” in which the female actually “squirts” a liquid at orgasm, as a male does.
I have to pee!
Some women experience an urge to urinate when their G-spot is stimulated. They won’t, in fact, urinate, but if their G-spot is stimulated to orgasm, they may release a substance from their urethra that is the equivalent of male semen — minus the sperm, of course.
Dr. G.
The G-spot, sometimes called the Skene gland, is named after the gynecologist who first discussed its existence in 1944, Dr. Ernst Grafenberg.
The make G-Spot:
Yes, apparently guys have one, too. The male G-spot is actually the prostate gland. It is most easily accessed via anal stimulation, can be found in the direction of the belly button, and is about the same size and texture as the female G-spot.
I can’t find it!
Don’t worry. While the female G-spot is a cherry on top of great sex, it is not necessary for satisfying intimacy. Experimentation is the best way to find out what works for you and your partner.
There is more information about the G-Spot and many other sex related articles located on chacha.com. I love the site and highly recommend all of you checking it out!
REVIEW: Playboy – Tru: A Parody
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I am a HUGE fan of True Blood so when I saw that Playboy TV was playing the parody of one of my favorite shows, I knew I had to watch it.
I was impressed with the opening song because they did a good job trying to mimic the one from the show. I have watched a few parodies in my time and this is one of my favorites. It may have something to do with the fact that I know all of the characters and the story line of the original show.
Scenes include:
-Maryanne and a helpless man she fucks then kills.
-Sookie and Tara find LaFayette dead.
-Tara and Jason engage in a very intense fucking on the bar.
-Sookie and Bill visit Eric at Fangtasia.
-Jason visits his support group that helps him with his addiction to vampire blood.
-Two virgins go into Fangtasia to ask Eric for vampire blood. He makes them pay by fucking them, orgy style with Pam.
-Bill and a very chesty Sookie share a passionate love making scene after a long day of searching for LaFayette’s killer.
-Maryanne summons Sookie to the woods to use her as a sacrifice.
This movie features lots of sex scenes with small breaks in between to keep the story line going. I actually think they did a good job hitting some of the main scenes from the real show while adding in ridiculous funny acting in between.The choice of music used for each specific scene was well picked in my opinion. There was kind of an erie song playing while Maryanne fucked the man should would later stab to death. Later, when Jason fucked a member of his support group in a flashback, there was a sweet slow song playing. They just really helped to set the mood.
I like parodies because we can sit and watch them together and while it does get us ready for each other, it also gives us an hour to sit and relax before we head to the bedroom to act out our own fantasies.
If you are into sex, blood and humor, you should check this movie out.
8 reasons to have morning sex
I know I always feel better when I start the day with a morning romp in the sheets. Unfortunately, we don’t have time for it nearly as much as I would like. This article highlights the 8 reasons we should get up a little earlier and add this to the routine whenever we can.
Reason #1- He’s already hard.
You don’t have to deal with foreplay, just let him turn you on. Have him hop on top. Who said morning sex had to be strenuous?
Reason #2- You can finish off that sexy dream.
Keep your eyes closed and finish off your sexy dream with your equally sleepy partner.
Reason #3- It’s a great morning workout.
No one wants to hit the gym before work. You can get those endorphins flowing with a partner and some difficult positions.
Reason #4- Get a natural morning glow.
You don’t need to smear on expensive skin cream to look healthy and vibrant in the morning. After a short AM quickie, you’ll look fresh-faced, dewey eyed and glowing all day.
Reason #5- It will give you something to think about all day.
Bored at work? Buried in spreadsheets? Think about that awesome morning sex you had. There’s that smile again!
Reason #6- It’s better with the lights on.
If you are timid in bed and prefer having sex while blanketed in darkness, mix things up with some sunshine.
Reason #7- You’re not going to shower anyway.
You can act dirty and get clean all at the same time! It will supercharge your morning schedule and kill two birds with one hot, steamy stone.
Reason #8- That’s one healthy serving of protein.
This one is pretty obvious.
My input:
-Sneak in a teeth brushing. The mint from the toothpaste will feel good for him when you give him oral.
-I love that our insecurities can’t be hidden because it is so light in the room. I feel its bonds us in our relationship.
-I love cuddling and while most men wake up with “morning wood,” I have the female version of that. I love to straddle his thigh while I stretch and it doesn’t take long before I’m ready to go with very little foreplay.
-Leaving myself little time to get ready for work after having morning sex just adds to the spontaneity of the morning and helps get me energized for my day.
-Men, wake her up gently. Soft caresses and kisses go a long way in the morning.
Source: http://thegloss.com/sex-and-dating/8-reasons-you-should-have-morning-sex-843/
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